
UnYielded: Thriving No Matter What
Life doesn’t get easier. We get stronger.
When I was younger, I was under the illusion that life was supposed to be easy. That led me to believe that I was doing something wrong.
I was missing the inherent truth that life has challenges, life has adversity and life presents obstacles but those aren’t sent to us to defeat us or punish us.
They are sent to us to refine us: our strength, our wisdom and the beauty of our character.
Once I understood this, life FELT easier and I became better at surfing the tides of life. (Better, not perfect. I still wipe out.)
Life will occasionally knock you down. This podcast will help you get back up - stronger and better than before!
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UnYielded: Thriving No Matter What
Let Authenticity Lead You - Mark Karake
Mark Karake is the founder and CEO of the Impact Africa Network, a nonprofit startup studio in Nairobi with a mission to ensure young, talented Africans have a chance to participate in the digital transformation of Africa as both creators and owners. After 15 years in Silicon Valley, he chose to move back to Africa to immerse himself in this economic development challenge.
Contact Mark Karake
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markkarake/
Mentioned in this Episode
ImpactAfrica Network - https://impactafrica.network/
Mark’s Articles on Medium - https://medium.com/@mark_karake
Bobbi’s Takeaways
I don't know about you, but I found my conversation with Mark to be very inspiring and insightful. Here are some of my key takeaways.
- I found it very touching when he spoke of being in an environment, but not of the environment and how there's nothing more assaulting to the human spirit than being ignored or ostracized. And made me think about all the different ways that this can happen from, from society. To religion. And sometimes even our own families.
- If you're tired or feeling worn down, keep going because eventually the justice of your cause will get the light that it deserves. I loved that phrasing from Mark.
- The human spirit cries out to be part of something bigger. We want more than to simply clock in and clock out. I believe that he's right. And I believe that when you see that person who is audacious enough to pursue their dreams, you can't help but be drawn to that a little bit.
- Living authentically can be dangerous because it sometimes means challenging the existence of the status quo. Again, this can exist across a number of dimensions from the larger society to a business climate, to communities and to families. I was talking to someone years ago, and she was talking about how systems are perfectly designed to maintain the status quo. She went on to give the example of a dysfunctional family. Many people think that a dysfunctional family is one that doesn't work at all when, in fact, it functions for some of the members, just not for all the members of the family. It functions for those seeking to maintain the status quo. And I think to Mark's point when you challenge the status quo, because you're being authentic to yourself, sometimes that can feel dangerous.
- The things that we regret most in life are the things that we didn't do. This is something that I've believed for years. And here's how I use it. If I'm about to try something that feels risky or that could lead to some sort of failure, I simply ask myself, “What will I regret more: trying and failing or not trying at all?”Not trying at all is almost always the larger regret.
I truly hope that you enjoyed my conversation with Mark. I invite you to take a look at his work at the Impact Africa Network. I have found my work there as a mentor to be extremely rewarding.
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